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How to get a spanking on this website 
 
This is the second of three degrees of spanking discipline.  The first, hand spanking, is found here.  The third, the woodshed, is found here. 
 
Whether you have been sent by your discipliner to get one, or you simply need a spanking in your own personal self-discipline, this is how to get one. 
 
You will need two pieces of equipment --  a self applied paddle and the meditation seat. 
 
 
self-applied paddle       meditation seat 
                          
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        Okay, here’s how to get a good one.  Place yourself behind the meditation seat so that the high side is toward you.  Pull down your pants at least halfway down your thighs, and get over the seat so that your bottom is conveniently placed, and positioned so that it cannot squirm out of the way.  If you are male, you will find there is plenty of room for the male equipment in the hollow frame of the seat. 
 
 
 
  
The actual punishment is applied without pants or underwear. 
 
 
Technique 
 
        A proper spanking requires that the hips be draped over something -- the arm of a stuffed armchair for example -- so that the skin of the buns is stretched taut, the skin pores held submissively open until the spanking is finished.  An order such as “hold your skin pores open until I’ve finished,” establishes spanking authority, whether you’re doing it to yourself or another. 
 
        Assuming you are right-handed, rest the back part of the left upper arm from the shoulder to the elbow on the floor, twist around slightly and grip the self-applied paddle with the right hand.  Grasp the back of the meditation seat with your left hand (the way it is in the photo above).  Place the paddle on the bottom, right where the spank will land.  Now raise the paddle in the air and give the buns an arm-swing, wrist-action smack!, right on the sweet spot.  Then give them another. 
 
       Around five units should bring you to the punishment point.  If it does not, the swats are not hard enough.  If less than five does it, they are too hard. That it is actually at that point should be a matter of honor.  So also with each punishment unit.  There should never be more than seven units in total.  Remember that the paddle does more damage than you think -- you will become aware of that later in the day and week.  One of the ways that spanking discipline works is that we remember it when we sit down.  There is a natural tendency to repress punishment, and these constant reminders are really very corrective. 
 
Punishment Units 
 
        A spanking is defined as the amount of smacking which brings the behind to the punishment point.  That’s where you start to say, “Yes sir or ma’am.”  Because you really don’t want any more.  When the rear end has been brought to that point, then punishment with the paddle can be very easily applied, according to how bad one has been. 
 
         In paddle-spanking, one swat on one day often does not equate to the same swat on another day.  The flesh in question is like the surface of the ocean; its conditions can vary greatly from day to day.  The same whack can be barely felt on one day, and really hurt on another. 
 
        In our self-applied ways of discipline, therefor, we use the punishment unit, rather than the whack, as the basic factor.  (A punishment unit is defined as five of them bringing you to the punishment point.)  To determine a unit, you spank it until, by subjective judgement, as accurate as you can sincerely be, you can say, on your honor, “There.  That’s one unit.”  Then you continue until you can truthfully say, “There.  That’s two units.” 
 
        The number of units is generally predetermined, either by a code, or by your self-parenting reaction to the behavior you are punishing. 
 
 
The Problem of Sabotage 
 
         Sometimes when you’re getting a hard one (6 or 7), the whacks tend to get attacked by the adversary, and caused to be ill-placed and glancing -- not punishing heartily and squarely as they should.  Yet, if you repeat them the punishment can become crazy and fanatical.  If this is a problem, I recommend a prayer for protection
 
 
 
 
 
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