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Hand Spanking with Affirmation
Danger: This exercise can easily make you spill, if you do not prepare yourself for it.
”Hand spankings are for before the thirteenth birthday; the hairbrush is for before the eighteenth. After the eighteenth birthday we use a paddle.” That said, hand spanking does continue to have value. Remember that our reactions to spanking are a magical property of the human form, with whcih we were endowed by our Creator. There is much much more to it than pain avoidance.
Each of us begins as a basic child-unit, which is made to behave on the threat of spanking. Not just in the current incarnation, but over and over again, for thousands of incarnations. The dynamic is so deep in our souls that it will never really be uprooted.
Hence its value in self-control. As countless boys have opined, it works. And if we cooperate with it, its value is increased.
As this book has demonstrated, by using the self-applied paddle, we can make the fully grown human as spanked as any small child. But for ordinary behavior control, the paddle is not necessary. Usually, properly applied hand-spanking with affirmation will do.
Without the affirmation the dynamic would be empty and ineffective. But with sincere affirmation, it puts you in the right condition, and you will behave in the desired manner in order to not get one.
For ordinary small misbehaviors (example: you say, “Oh spit,” only you don’t say spit) a hand-spanking is better. But it wouldn’t be effective for grownups if it were not for the magical effect of affirmation at the same time. Turn over in bed, pull back the covers. Begin spanking the bare behind, not overly hard, but firmly. Firmly. Both sides at once, right on the sweet spot.
While doing so, repeat an affirmation. Be sure to make yourself mean it.
I will be a good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good boy.
I will be a passive, passive, passive, passive passive, passive boy.
Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir. Yes, sir.
Yes, ma’am. Yes, ma’am. Yes, ma’am. Yes, ma’am.
I will be an obedient, obedient, obedient, obedient, obedient, obedient boy.
I am being corrected. I am being corrected. I am being corrected.
A better boy can make me do this. A better boy can make me do this.
________ can make me do this any time he wants.
If I misbehave, I will be a punished, punished, punished, punished boy.
Optionals:
A better boy I like can take me over his knees.....
I promise to do this whenever I’m bad, when any boy should get one.
For small, ordinary misbehaviors, that will be effective. It will correct the behavior, and prevent backsliding.
For medium misbehaviors we use the paddle. Full instructions for that are fiound here.
For large misbehaviors, the woodshed type is needed, Instructions for that are found here.
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