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The Self-Control That Uses Spanking 

 

 

          There are three elements of the self-control that uses spanking.  These are the desire, the will, and the bloke.  Desire is the yin part; will is the yang part, and the bloke is the bloke.  In this control, desire is the obedient boy of the bloke, and can be made to obediently build a desire to any level.  The will is also the obedient boy of the bloke, and can be made to build what it feels like doing to any level.  You would want to have a strong, robust spirit of obedience.  That spirit can be built and strengthened by using the vehicle. 

 

          Desire is the plow.  Will is merely the water that flows in the furrow cut by the plow.  Desire is the only key to real will power, but desire can be made to manifest by will. 

 

          An act of will, based on a decision by the bloke, can be initiated at either desire or will.  Either one of them can dominate the other powerfully; neither cares which is dominating.  They are a team; they work together to make happen what the bloke desires to happen. 

 

          This way cuts through the tendency of the mind to play tricks in thes area.  Let’s say you ought to be spanked.  You did something, or failed to do something, or allowed your standard to fall. 

 

          Will turns to mind and says, “Okay, you’re gonna get one.  Start wanting to be spanked.” 

          “I want to be spanked.”  (heartfelt, focused, obedient.) 

          “Harder.  More focused, more intense, more sincere, more heartfelt.” 

          “I WANT TO BE SPANKED!”  (concentrates on really meaning it, and addressing the will directly.) 

          This continues until the will is satisfied that the desire is strong enough. 

 

          “Then what do you want me to do?” 

          “Spank me.” 

          “How hard?” 

          “Six hard ones, with wrist action, right on the bare sweet spot, while I’m over the meditation seat.” 

 

          Now you know perfectly well that when something is desired in there, you provide it.  You do it all the time.  So if desire is strong enough, and genuine enough, what it wants you will give it..  You must learn to self-assess the strength of the desire, and competently increase it to the effective level. 

 

          The parenting that children receive is an abstraction of life in the cosmos.  What parents do to children, the cosmos is doing to each and every one of us all of the time, but so slowly that we cannot perceive it. 

 

          So in all fairness, people are given at the start of a life, an intense and vivid experience of what the cosmos will be doing to them.  The parenting of children is only for children, but what we are doing here is creating a similar abstraction, for the purpose of shaping ourselves into the way that we would prefer to be. 

 

          In this sense, being a good boy is the key to the cosmos; the key to life.  The way given here is one of taking control of your own destiny.  If life seems undesirable, that’s not life -- that’s you.  Change you, and you change life. 

 

 

 

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